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Role of the Sweetheart

The Sweetheart, be she Chapter or State, should exemplify the highest DeMolay ideal of womanhood. She will learn a great deal and meet many fascinating young men, as well as make lasting friendships.

She is under constant observation, and must always conduct herself in a ladylike manner. She is neat, well groomed, and sincerely dedicated to the Order of DeMolay. Her aim should be to boost morale by adding beauty, charm, and excitement to all functions which she attends. She should go out of her way to pay attention to each DeMolay member, to be friendly to all, and not forget the younger members who may be a bit reluctant to receive attention.

The Chapter or State Sweetheart may not be a member of the Chapter or State Parents' Club and may not hold office.

No matter what her role may be, she must remember that her warm smile and friendly face are important to the promotion of her Chapter. Practice good manners. Remember to be considerate of other's feelings, their safety, their privacy, and their full social rights and priviledges.

The Sweetheart does not have the priviledge of seeing or taking part in the ceremonies of the Order, and should not even appear to listen near the lodge room door. She may attend that portion of the meeting when the Chapter is "at ease", but must never be in the meeting when the Chapter is in closed session.

The above is given to the Sweetheart that she may understand the proper times she may be permitted into the Chapter room. But it is the responsibility of the Chapter to invite her in at the proper times.

A Sweetheart should learn about the guys in her Chapter. She should take time to give encouragement and support when they need it. She must remember she has embarked on one of the most precious years of her life. She should handle it well, wisely, and with love. For this one year, DeMolay activities should be considered TOP PRIORITY. If she will keep these things in mind and remember to follow them closely, she will have a very successful term and a very appreciative Chapter.

Should a Sweetheart (at any level) become engaged or married during her term of office, she has immediately vacated her position and relinquishes her crown and banner.